Sunday, February 12, 2017

सफलता के 20 मँत्र

तरूण सागर  Ke
: सफलता के 20  मँत्र " 👏
👏1.खुद की कमाई  से कम
          खर्च हो ऐसी जिन्दगी
          बनाओ..!
👏2. दिन  मेँ कम  से कम
           3 लोगो की प्रशंसा करो..!
👏3. खुद की भुल स्वीकारने
           मेँ कभी भी संकोच मत
           करो..!
👏4. किसी  के सपनो पर  हँसो
           मत..!
👏5. आपके पीछे खडे व्यक्ति
           को भी कभी कभी आगे
           जाने का मौका दो..!
👏6. रोज हो सके तो सुरज को
           उगता हुए देखे..!
👏7. खुब जरुरी हो तभी कोई
          चीज उधार लो..!
👏8. किसी के पास  से  कुछ
           जानना हो तो विवेक  से
           दो बार...पुछो..!
👏9. कर्ज और शत्रु को कभी
           बडा मत होने दो..!
👏10. Khud पर पुरा भरोसा
             रखो..!
👏11. प्रार्थना करना कभी
             मत भुलो,प्रार्थना मेँ
             अपार शक्ति होती है..!
👏12. अपने काम  से मतलब
             रखो..!
👏13. समय सबसे ज्यादा
             कीमती है, इसको फालतु
             कामो  मेँ खर्च मत करो..
👏14. जो आपके पास है, उसी
             मेँ खुश रहना सिखो..!
👏15. बुराई कभी भी किसी कि
             भी मत करो,
             क्योकिँ  बुराई नाव  मेँ
             छेद समान  है,बुराई
             छोटी हो बडी नाव तो
             डुबो ही देती  है..!
👏16. हमेशा सकारात्मक सोच
             रखो..!
👏17. हर व्यक्ति एक हुनर
             लेकर  पैदा होता है बस
             उस हुनर को दुनिया के
             सामने लाओ..!
👏18. कोई काम छोटा नही
             होता हर काम बडा होता
             है जैसे कि सोचो जो
             काम आप कर रहे हो
             अगर वह काम
             आप नही करते हो तो
             दुनिया पर क्या असर
             होता..?
👏19. सफलता उनको ही
             मिलती  है जो कुछ
             करते  है
👏20. कुछ पाने के लिए कुछ 
             खोना नही बल्कि  कुछ
             करना पडता है....!

Thursday, January 12, 2017

Happiness



After years of hard & dedicated service to his Company, Ajay was being appointed at  an elegant reception as the new Director. 

It was a small function where his wife Anita , a Home Executive & some of the wives of the other persons in top management were also present.
 
In an adjacent room, Ann, the wife of the CEO of the Company, asked Ajay's wife a very odd & usual question; "Does your  husband make you  happy?"
 
The husband, Ajay, who at that moment was not at her side, but was sufficiently near to hear the question, paid attention to the conversation, sitting up slightly, feeling secure, even filling his chest lightly in pride & hope,  would definitely not publically lower or degrade her husband, would answer affirmatively, since she had always been there for him during their marriage and generally in life. 

Nevertheless, to both his & the others' surprise, she replied simply; "No, no he doesn't make me happy…"

The room became uncomfortably silent, as if everyone were listening to the spouse's response. There was a sudden coldness in the air. The husband was petrified. A frown appeared on his face. 
He couldn't believe what his wife was saying, especially at such an important occasion for him. To the amazement of her husband & of everyone!
 
Anita sat up firmly & explained in a modest but stern tone to the other wives who were present; 
"No, he doesn't make me happy… I AM HAPPY. The fact that I am happy or not doesn't depend on him, but on me. GOD has granted each of us intellect & discretion to reason, interpret & decide. GOD made me the person upon which my happiness depends. 

I make the choice to be happy in each situation & in each moment of my life. 
If my happiness were to depend on other people, on other things or circumstances on the face of this earth, I would be in serious trouble! 

Over my life I have learned a couple of things: I decide to be happy & the rest is a matter of 'experiences or circumstances' like helping, understanding, accepting, listening, consoling & with my spouse, I have lived & practiced this many times. 

Honestly true happiness lies in being content"
 
Relieved & reassured, a smile was clearly noticed on Ajay's face.

Happiness will always be found in contentment, forgiveness & in loving ourselves & others. 
To truly love is difficult, it is to forgive unconditionally, to live, to take the "experiences or  circumstances" as they are, facing them together & being happy with conviction. 

There are those who say I cannot be happy  :
· Because I am sick.
· Because I have no money.
· Because it's too cold.
· Because they insulted me.
· Because someone stopped loving me.
· Because someone didn't appreciate me.
 
But what they don't know is that they can be happy even though sick, whether it is too hot, whether they have money or not, whether someone has insulted them, or someone didn't love or hasn't valued them.
 
Being Happy is an attitude about life & each one of us must decide!
 
Being Happy, depends on us!

It Depends on Me.
I fall. I rise. I make mistakes. I live. I learn. I've been hurt but I'm alive. 
I'm human. 
I'm not perfect but I'm Thankful.😊

Tuesday, December 20, 2016

Spiritual maturity

*What is spiritual maturity? 
1. Spiritual Maturity is *when you stop trying to change others,...instead focus on changing yourself.*
2. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*accept people as they are.*
3. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*understand everyone is right in their own perspective.*
4. Spiritual Maturity is when you 
*learn to "let go".*
5. Spiritual Maturity is when you are able to *drop "expectations" from a relationship and give for the sake of giving.*
6. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*understand whatever you do, you do for your own peace.*
7. Spiritual Maturity is when you *stop proving to the world, how intelligent you are.*
8. Spiritual Maturity is when you *don't seek approval from others.*
9. Spiritual Maturity is when you *stop comparing with others.*
10. Spiritual Maturity is when you *are at peace with yourself.*
11. Spiritual Maturity is when you *are able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and are able to let go of your wants.*
*& last but most meaningful !*
12. You gain Spiritual Maturity when you *stop attaching "happiness" to material things !!*

"Wishing u a happy Spiritually matured life*

Spiritual maturity

*What is spiritual maturity? 
1. Spiritual Maturity is *when you stop trying to change others,...instead focus on changing yourself.*
2. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*accept people as they are.*
3. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*understand everyone is right in their own perspective.*
4. Spiritual Maturity is when you 
*learn to "let go".*
5. Spiritual Maturity is when you are able to *drop "expectations" from a relationship and give for the sake of giving.*
6. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*understand whatever you do, you do for your own peace.*
7. Spiritual Maturity is when you *stop proving to the world, how intelligent you are.*
8. Spiritual Maturity is when you *don't seek approval from others.*
9. Spiritual Maturity is when you *stop comparing with others.*
10. Spiritual Maturity is when you *are at peace with yourself.*
11. Spiritual Maturity is when you *are able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and are able to let go of your wants.*
*& last but most meaningful !*
12. You gain Spiritual Maturity when you *stop attaching "happiness" to material things !!*

"Wishing u a happy Spiritually matured life*

Saturday, October 22, 2016

कठोर किंतु सत्य

🌞🙏🏽 ~*जीत*~🙏🏽🌞
        *कठोर किंतु सत्य!*
👉🏽1- माचिस किसी दूसरी चीज
को जलाने से पहले खुद
को जलाती हैं..!
*गुस्सा* भी एक माचिस की तरह है..!
यह दुसरो को बरबाद करने से पहले
खुद को बरबाद करता है...

👉🏽2- आज का कठोर व कङवा सत्य !!
चार *रिश्तेदार* एक दिशा में 
तब ही चलते हैं ,
जब पांचवा कंधे पर हो...

👉🏽3- कीचड़ में पैर फंस जाये तो नल के पास जाना चाहिए
मगर,
नल को देखकर कीचड़ में नही जाना चाहिए,
इसी प्रकार...
जिन्दगी में *बुरा समय* आ जाये
तो...
पैसों का उपयोग करना चाहिए
मगर...
पैसों को देखकर बुरे रास्ते पर नही जाना चाहिए...

👉🏽4- रिश्तों की बगिया में एक *रिश्ता* नीम के पेड़ जैसा भी रखना,
जो सीख भले ही कड़वी देता हो पर
तकलीफ में मरहम भी बनता है...

👉🏽5- *परिवर्तन* से डरना और *संघर्ष* से कतराना, 
मनुष्य की सबसे बड़ी कायरता है...

👉🏽6- जीवन का सबसे बड़ा गुरु *वक्त* होता है,
क्योंकि जो वक्त सिखाता है वो कोई नहीं सीखा सकता...

👉🏽7- बहुत ही सुन्दर वर्णन है-
*मस्तक को थोड़ा झुकाकर देखिए....*अभिमान मर जाएगा

*आँखें को थोड़ा भिगा कर देखिए.....*पत्थर दिल पिघल जाएगा

*दांतों को आराम देकर देखिए.........*स्वास्थ्य सुधर जाएगा

*जिव्हा पर विराम लगा कर देखिए.....*क्लेश का कारवाँ गुज़र जाएगा

*इच्छाओं को थोड़ा घटाकर देखिए......*खुशियों का संसार नज़र आएगा...

8- पूरी *जिंदगी* हम इसी बात में गुजार देते हैं कि .."चार लोग क्या कहेंगे", 
और अंत में चार लोग बस यही कहते हैं कि *"राम नाम सत्य है"...*            
🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

Friday, October 21, 2016

त्यागी

एक संत थे । वे भिक्षा के लिये एक सेठ के यहाँ गये। सेठ ने आकर नमस्कार किया तो संत ने भी उसको नमस्कार किया, वह संत के पैरों पड़ा तो संत ने भी उसके पैर पड़े। सेठ बोला कि - महाराज, आप क्यों पैर पड़ते हैं ? संत बोले कि तुम क्यों पैर पड़ते हो ? तो सेठ ने कहा कि *महाराज, आप त्यागी हो, आपने स्त्री, पुत्र, धन, जमीन, जायदाद, मकान आदि का त्याग किया है, इसलिये आप बड़े हो। संत ने उत्तर दिया कि अगर त्याग को देखें तो तुम बड़े हुए* क्योंकि तुमने स्त्री, पुत्र, धन आदि के लिये *भगवान का त्याग कर दिया है ।* *बड़ी चीज भगवान है कि रुपया*? त्यागी तुम बड़े हुए कि मैं बड़ा हुआ ? *तुम कितने बड़े त्यागी हो कि संसार के भरोसे भगवान को भी इस्तीफा देकर बैठ गये ।* सोचें की क्या हम भी तो यही नहीं कर रहे ?

Monday, October 17, 2016

नैवेद्य

*NAIVEDYAM: WILL GOD EAT OUR OFFERINGS?*

Here is a very good explanation about Neivedyam to God. Will God come and eat our offerings?Many of us could not get proper explanation from our elders.An attempt is made here. 

A Guru-Shishya conversation:

The sishya who doesn't believe in God, asked his Guru thus:
"Does God accept our 'neivedhyam'(offerings)? If God eats away the 'prasadham' then from where can we distribute it to others? Does God really consume the 'prasadham', Guruji?"

The Guru did not say anything. Instead, asked the student to prepare for classes. 

That day, the Guru was teaching his class about the 'upanishads'. He taught them the 'mantra': "poornamadham, poornamidham, ......poornasya poornaadaaya...." and explained that: 'every thing came out from "Poorna or Totality." (of ishavasya upanishad).

 Later, everyone was instructed to practice the mantra by-heart. So all the boys started praciting. After a while, the Guru came back and asked that very student who had raised his doubt about Neivedyam to recite the mantra without seeing the book,  which he did. 

Now the Guru gave a smile and asked this particular shishya who didn't believe in God: 'Did you really memorize everything as it is in the book? The shishya said: "yes Guruji, I've recited whatever is written as in the book. 

The Guru asked: "If you have taken every word into your mind then how come the words are still there in the book? He then explained:

"The words in your mind are in the SOOKSHMA STHITI (unseen form). The words in the book are there in the STOOLASTHITI (seen).

 God too is in the 'sooksma sthiti'. The offering made to Him is done in 'stoola sthiti'. Thus, God takes the food in 'sookshmam', in sookshma stithi. Hence the food doesn't become any less in quantity.

While GOD takes it in the "sookshma sthiti",  we take it as 'prasadam' in 'sthoola sthiti'.

Hearing this the sishya felt guilty for his disbelief in God and surrendered himself to his GURU.
🙏💐🔔