Sunday, February 12, 2017

सफलता के 20 मँत्र

तरूण सागर  Ke
: सफलता के 20  मँत्र " 👏
👏1.खुद की कमाई  से कम
          खर्च हो ऐसी जिन्दगी
          बनाओ..!
👏2. दिन  मेँ कम  से कम
           3 लोगो की प्रशंसा करो..!
👏3. खुद की भुल स्वीकारने
           मेँ कभी भी संकोच मत
           करो..!
👏4. किसी  के सपनो पर  हँसो
           मत..!
👏5. आपके पीछे खडे व्यक्ति
           को भी कभी कभी आगे
           जाने का मौका दो..!
👏6. रोज हो सके तो सुरज को
           उगता हुए देखे..!
👏7. खुब जरुरी हो तभी कोई
          चीज उधार लो..!
👏8. किसी के पास  से  कुछ
           जानना हो तो विवेक  से
           दो बार...पुछो..!
👏9. कर्ज और शत्रु को कभी
           बडा मत होने दो..!
👏10. Khud पर पुरा भरोसा
             रखो..!
👏11. प्रार्थना करना कभी
             मत भुलो,प्रार्थना मेँ
             अपार शक्ति होती है..!
👏12. अपने काम  से मतलब
             रखो..!
👏13. समय सबसे ज्यादा
             कीमती है, इसको फालतु
             कामो  मेँ खर्च मत करो..
👏14. जो आपके पास है, उसी
             मेँ खुश रहना सिखो..!
👏15. बुराई कभी भी किसी कि
             भी मत करो,
             क्योकिँ  बुराई नाव  मेँ
             छेद समान  है,बुराई
             छोटी हो बडी नाव तो
             डुबो ही देती  है..!
👏16. हमेशा सकारात्मक सोच
             रखो..!
👏17. हर व्यक्ति एक हुनर
             लेकर  पैदा होता है बस
             उस हुनर को दुनिया के
             सामने लाओ..!
👏18. कोई काम छोटा नही
             होता हर काम बडा होता
             है जैसे कि सोचो जो
             काम आप कर रहे हो
             अगर वह काम
             आप नही करते हो तो
             दुनिया पर क्या असर
             होता..?
👏19. सफलता उनको ही
             मिलती  है जो कुछ
             करते  है
👏20. कुछ पाने के लिए कुछ 
             खोना नही बल्कि  कुछ
             करना पडता है....!

Thursday, January 12, 2017

Happiness



After years of hard & dedicated service to his Company, Ajay was being appointed at  an elegant reception as the new Director. 

It was a small function where his wife Anita , a Home Executive & some of the wives of the other persons in top management were also present.
 
In an adjacent room, Ann, the wife of the CEO of the Company, asked Ajay's wife a very odd & usual question; "Does your  husband make you  happy?"
 
The husband, Ajay, who at that moment was not at her side, but was sufficiently near to hear the question, paid attention to the conversation, sitting up slightly, feeling secure, even filling his chest lightly in pride & hope,  would definitely not publically lower or degrade her husband, would answer affirmatively, since she had always been there for him during their marriage and generally in life. 

Nevertheless, to both his & the others' surprise, she replied simply; "No, no he doesn't make me happy…"

The room became uncomfortably silent, as if everyone were listening to the spouse's response. There was a sudden coldness in the air. The husband was petrified. A frown appeared on his face. 
He couldn't believe what his wife was saying, especially at such an important occasion for him. To the amazement of her husband & of everyone!
 
Anita sat up firmly & explained in a modest but stern tone to the other wives who were present; 
"No, he doesn't make me happy… I AM HAPPY. The fact that I am happy or not doesn't depend on him, but on me. GOD has granted each of us intellect & discretion to reason, interpret & decide. GOD made me the person upon which my happiness depends. 

I make the choice to be happy in each situation & in each moment of my life. 
If my happiness were to depend on other people, on other things or circumstances on the face of this earth, I would be in serious trouble! 

Over my life I have learned a couple of things: I decide to be happy & the rest is a matter of 'experiences or circumstances' like helping, understanding, accepting, listening, consoling & with my spouse, I have lived & practiced this many times. 

Honestly true happiness lies in being content"
 
Relieved & reassured, a smile was clearly noticed on Ajay's face.

Happiness will always be found in contentment, forgiveness & in loving ourselves & others. 
To truly love is difficult, it is to forgive unconditionally, to live, to take the "experiences or  circumstances" as they are, facing them together & being happy with conviction. 

There are those who say I cannot be happy  :
· Because I am sick.
· Because I have no money.
· Because it's too cold.
· Because they insulted me.
· Because someone stopped loving me.
· Because someone didn't appreciate me.
 
But what they don't know is that they can be happy even though sick, whether it is too hot, whether they have money or not, whether someone has insulted them, or someone didn't love or hasn't valued them.
 
Being Happy is an attitude about life & each one of us must decide!
 
Being Happy, depends on us!

It Depends on Me.
I fall. I rise. I make mistakes. I live. I learn. I've been hurt but I'm alive. 
I'm human. 
I'm not perfect but I'm Thankful.😊

Tuesday, December 20, 2016

Spiritual maturity

*What is spiritual maturity? 
1. Spiritual Maturity is *when you stop trying to change others,...instead focus on changing yourself.*
2. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*accept people as they are.*
3. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*understand everyone is right in their own perspective.*
4. Spiritual Maturity is when you 
*learn to "let go".*
5. Spiritual Maturity is when you are able to *drop "expectations" from a relationship and give for the sake of giving.*
6. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*understand whatever you do, you do for your own peace.*
7. Spiritual Maturity is when you *stop proving to the world, how intelligent you are.*
8. Spiritual Maturity is when you *don't seek approval from others.*
9. Spiritual Maturity is when you *stop comparing with others.*
10. Spiritual Maturity is when you *are at peace with yourself.*
11. Spiritual Maturity is when you *are able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and are able to let go of your wants.*
*& last but most meaningful !*
12. You gain Spiritual Maturity when you *stop attaching "happiness" to material things !!*

"Wishing u a happy Spiritually matured life*

Spiritual maturity

*What is spiritual maturity? 
1. Spiritual Maturity is *when you stop trying to change others,...instead focus on changing yourself.*
2. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*accept people as they are.*
3. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*understand everyone is right in their own perspective.*
4. Spiritual Maturity is when you 
*learn to "let go".*
5. Spiritual Maturity is when you are able to *drop "expectations" from a relationship and give for the sake of giving.*
6. Spiritual Maturity is when you
*understand whatever you do, you do for your own peace.*
7. Spiritual Maturity is when you *stop proving to the world, how intelligent you are.*
8. Spiritual Maturity is when you *don't seek approval from others.*
9. Spiritual Maturity is when you *stop comparing with others.*
10. Spiritual Maturity is when you *are at peace with yourself.*
11. Spiritual Maturity is when you *are able to differentiate between "need" and "want" and are able to let go of your wants.*
*& last but most meaningful !*
12. You gain Spiritual Maturity when you *stop attaching "happiness" to material things !!*

"Wishing u a happy Spiritually matured life*

Saturday, October 22, 2016

कठोर किंतु सत्य

🌞🙏🏽 ~*जीत*~🙏🏽🌞
        *कठोर किंतु सत्य!*
👉🏽1- माचिस किसी दूसरी चीज
को जलाने से पहले खुद
को जलाती हैं..!
*गुस्सा* भी एक माचिस की तरह है..!
यह दुसरो को बरबाद करने से पहले
खुद को बरबाद करता है...

👉🏽2- आज का कठोर व कङवा सत्य !!
चार *रिश्तेदार* एक दिशा में 
तब ही चलते हैं ,
जब पांचवा कंधे पर हो...

👉🏽3- कीचड़ में पैर फंस जाये तो नल के पास जाना चाहिए
मगर,
नल को देखकर कीचड़ में नही जाना चाहिए,
इसी प्रकार...
जिन्दगी में *बुरा समय* आ जाये
तो...
पैसों का उपयोग करना चाहिए
मगर...
पैसों को देखकर बुरे रास्ते पर नही जाना चाहिए...

👉🏽4- रिश्तों की बगिया में एक *रिश्ता* नीम के पेड़ जैसा भी रखना,
जो सीख भले ही कड़वी देता हो पर
तकलीफ में मरहम भी बनता है...

👉🏽5- *परिवर्तन* से डरना और *संघर्ष* से कतराना, 
मनुष्य की सबसे बड़ी कायरता है...

👉🏽6- जीवन का सबसे बड़ा गुरु *वक्त* होता है,
क्योंकि जो वक्त सिखाता है वो कोई नहीं सीखा सकता...

👉🏽7- बहुत ही सुन्दर वर्णन है-
*मस्तक को थोड़ा झुकाकर देखिए....*अभिमान मर जाएगा

*आँखें को थोड़ा भिगा कर देखिए.....*पत्थर दिल पिघल जाएगा

*दांतों को आराम देकर देखिए.........*स्वास्थ्य सुधर जाएगा

*जिव्हा पर विराम लगा कर देखिए.....*क्लेश का कारवाँ गुज़र जाएगा

*इच्छाओं को थोड़ा घटाकर देखिए......*खुशियों का संसार नज़र आएगा...

8- पूरी *जिंदगी* हम इसी बात में गुजार देते हैं कि .."चार लोग क्या कहेंगे", 
और अंत में चार लोग बस यही कहते हैं कि *"राम नाम सत्य है"...*            
🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺

Friday, October 21, 2016

त्यागी

एक संत थे । वे भिक्षा के लिये एक सेठ के यहाँ गये। सेठ ने आकर नमस्कार किया तो संत ने भी उसको नमस्कार किया, वह संत के पैरों पड़ा तो संत ने भी उसके पैर पड़े। सेठ बोला कि - महाराज, आप क्यों पैर पड़ते हैं ? संत बोले कि तुम क्यों पैर पड़ते हो ? तो सेठ ने कहा कि *महाराज, आप त्यागी हो, आपने स्त्री, पुत्र, धन, जमीन, जायदाद, मकान आदि का त्याग किया है, इसलिये आप बड़े हो। संत ने उत्तर दिया कि अगर त्याग को देखें तो तुम बड़े हुए* क्योंकि तुमने स्त्री, पुत्र, धन आदि के लिये *भगवान का त्याग कर दिया है ।* *बड़ी चीज भगवान है कि रुपया*? त्यागी तुम बड़े हुए कि मैं बड़ा हुआ ? *तुम कितने बड़े त्यागी हो कि संसार के भरोसे भगवान को भी इस्तीफा देकर बैठ गये ।* सोचें की क्या हम भी तो यही नहीं कर रहे ?

Monday, October 17, 2016

नैवेद्य

*NAIVEDYAM: WILL GOD EAT OUR OFFERINGS?*

Here is a very good explanation about Neivedyam to God. Will God come and eat our offerings?Many of us could not get proper explanation from our elders.An attempt is made here. 

A Guru-Shishya conversation:

The sishya who doesn't believe in God, asked his Guru thus:
"Does God accept our 'neivedhyam'(offerings)? If God eats away the 'prasadham' then from where can we distribute it to others? Does God really consume the 'prasadham', Guruji?"

The Guru did not say anything. Instead, asked the student to prepare for classes. 

That day, the Guru was teaching his class about the 'upanishads'. He taught them the 'mantra': "poornamadham, poornamidham, ......poornasya poornaadaaya...." and explained that: 'every thing came out from "Poorna or Totality." (of ishavasya upanishad).

 Later, everyone was instructed to practice the mantra by-heart. So all the boys started praciting. After a while, the Guru came back and asked that very student who had raised his doubt about Neivedyam to recite the mantra without seeing the book,  which he did. 

Now the Guru gave a smile and asked this particular shishya who didn't believe in God: 'Did you really memorize everything as it is in the book? The shishya said: "yes Guruji, I've recited whatever is written as in the book. 

The Guru asked: "If you have taken every word into your mind then how come the words are still there in the book? He then explained:

"The words in your mind are in the SOOKSHMA STHITI (unseen form). The words in the book are there in the STOOLASTHITI (seen).

 God too is in the 'sooksma sthiti'. The offering made to Him is done in 'stoola sthiti'. Thus, God takes the food in 'sookshmam', in sookshma stithi. Hence the food doesn't become any less in quantity.

While GOD takes it in the "sookshma sthiti",  we take it as 'prasadam' in 'sthoola sthiti'.

Hearing this the sishya felt guilty for his disbelief in God and surrendered himself to his GURU.
🙏💐🔔

सबका मंगल हो

तेरा मंगल , तेरा मंगल, तेरा मंगल होये रे,
सबका मंगल , सबका मंगल, सबका मंगल होये रे,
जिस गुरु ने धर्म दिया है उस गुरु का मंगल होये रे,
जिस जननी ने जन्म दिया है उस जननी का मंगल होये
रे,
पाला-- पोसा और पढ़ाया उस पिता का मंगल होये
रे,
इस जगत के सब दुखियारे प्राणी का मंगल होये रे,
जन्म स्थल और गगन में सबका मंगल होये रे,
अंतर मन के गांठे टूटे, अंतर निर्मल होये रे,
आप सबका मंगल हो💐💐

The Master

Sunday, October 16, 2016

गुलाब

*अगर आप गुलाब की तरह*
*खिलना चाहते हो तो*
*आपको कांटो के साथ*
*तालमेल बैठाना सीखना होगा !!*        

बुलंदियाँ

वो बुलंदियां भी किस काम की जनाब
इंसान चढ़ता रहे और 
इंसानियत उतरती जाए"

देना



मैंने दिया है, मुझे पाना है ,
यह भाव दुःख का रास्ता हैI 
मैंने पाया है, मुझे देना है ;
यह भाव सुख का रास्ता हैI

Change the way you think



When you change the way your think , you can change the way you feel .
Change yourself - think positive, love your Life , spread happiness .
Make your world beautiful !!

Remove Negativity , hate , frustration, angry .

Be kind , sweet , true , honest , love your  Life.

Life is A Gift - Add Love , keep smiling 

Friday, October 14, 2016

Humble prayer

Prayer:


God please keep me humble. If You see arrogance, make me aware quickly but please don't punish me. If possible, please din't humiliate me to keep me humble. Please correct me. Tell me kindly. I will fix it right away. Give me a chance.


Friday, October 7, 2016

Stoned

"You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks..!!"

Monday, September 26, 2016

Q and A

Interesting Q and A 

Q: if nothing works even after praying and surrendering, what should we do ?
A: Go and serve someone in need. The best prayer to God is go and serve someone in need. What goes out, will come back to you.

Q: Why is it that people whom we love most, hurt us the most. Is it God's plan to detach us from near & dear ones ? 
A: Because we love them the most. The more we love, more we expect. True love does not expect.
True love is on the giving side.

Q: It is said, that whatever has to happen will happen. But there is also a theory which says if we think positive, we will attract positive things in life. Gautam Buddha also said that what we are is a result of what we thought. Please explain which theory we should believe in as both are contradictory to each other?
A: They are not contradictory to each other. If you think positive, you release forces that prepare the way for you. Every human being has been given power of thought, will and imagination. Power of imagination such as we read in life of Guru Nanak, He was thrown in prison, but He imagined it as a palace. And he said He lived in a palace. Same power which Guru Nanak had, has been given to us. Only we should use this power. If you use your power in the right way, you can overcome the difficulties.

Q: How do we as parents address grown up adult children who are depressed due to marriage or work issues ?
A: There is one thing which is known as a master key to all problems. And that is prayer. There was a scientist who said that the greatest but the most unused power is power of prayer. Prayer is going to God, so go to God again and again.

Q: I am very worried about the future of my children and husband and I feel worried and depressed ?
A: You have been worrying, again & again for years together, has that changed things ? So let go, and let God take over. Tell Him this is my worry, this is my problem. Kindly remove it and you will get the answer.

Q: My daughter has many wild and bad habits, what should I do to help her. 
A: Prayer would again give a solution, it works wonder. You should also set up a good example for your daughter, and that will work more than words.

Q: After listening to so many discourses, I still love the world, and I feel it is true and real. What should I do? 
A: You love the world, and because you love it as real, you must think as one aspect of God. God is the only reality of this world. You think of the world as God, you will be abundantly blessed.

Q: Where do we go after death ?
A : We don't go anywhere, we are here. Death does not take us to some location. Death is only a change of consciousness.

Q: Women are very empowered nowadays and as much educated as man, and are also financially independent. They rub shoulders with man in every field of life. This is the same in terms of parenthood. Mothers now a days are doing everything that father did for children in the past. Dada what is the role a father plays in bringing up the child. What is your message for first time daddies?

A: The father should not think of himself as a single entity. When you marry, 2 become 1. It is said in the law of marriage 2 -1 = 0. Most of them who must contribute in bringing up children in right way, both should discuss and act. They should together think what would be the best way to bring up the child. 

Q: What is the goal of human life ?
A : To become perfect, as your father is perfect in heaven. I should be more perfect tomorrow than I am today. And compassion is important element, of perfection. I should become more and more compassionate. 

Q.How God looks like 
A He is Nisswarth Nirankar No Shape a Golden Light with thousands of Sun brighter with fragrances 

Q what is my mission in life
A karma karma and Karma only Good

Saturday, September 24, 2016

You

You yourself are your own obstacle. Rise above yourself.

~ Sufi Saying
      (Hafiz)

हार जीत


सिर्फ दुनिया के सामने जीतने वाला ही विजेता नहीं होता,
किन रिश्तों के सामने कब और कहाँ पर 'हारना' है, यह 'जानने' वाला भी विजेता होता है......

सूखे होंठ

अक्सर सूखे हुए होंठों से ही 
होती हैं मीठी बातें,
प्यास बुझ जाए तो 
अल्फाज और इन्सान दोनों बदल जाते हैं