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Motives

Look into the motives behind your actions. Often you don't go for things that you really want. You go for things because others want it. And you are not clear what you want because you never looked into yourself.

Imbibe this: Independence means depending on the inside. You are miserable when you want things from others for comfort. 'I am independent' means 'I am inner-dependent.' So I want nothing from anybody.

Be a student

Be a student in life - 

"Knowledge may come to you from any corner. Each occasion teaches you and each person teaches you. When you are always looking to learn, you will stop underestimating others. Humility will dawn in your life."

don't get discouraged,

One day a school teacher wrote on the board the following:

9×1=7

9×2=18

9×3=27

9×4=36

9×5=45

9×6=54

9×7=63

9×8=72

9×9=81

9×10=90

When she was done, she looked to the students and they were all laughing at her, because of the first equation which was wrong, and then the teacher said the following,

"I wrote that first one wrong on purpose, because I wanted you to learn something important. This was for you to know how the world out there will treat you. You can see that I wrote RIGHT 9 times, but none of you congratulated me for it; you all laughed and criticized me because of one wrong thing I did. So this is the lesson...:

*'The world will never appreciate the good you do a million times, but will criticize the one wrong thing you do...*

But don't get discouraged, 

*ALWAYS RISE ABOVE ALL THE LAUGHTER AND CRITICISM.*

*"STAY STRONG"*

रिश्ते

शांत मन

शांत मन हमारी आत्मा की ताकत है, 

शांत मन में ही ईश्वर का निवास होता है। 

जब पानी उबलता है तो हम उसमें अपना प्रतिबिम्ब नहीं देख सकते 

और शांत पानी में हम स्वयं को देख सकते हैं। 

ठीक वैसे ही हृदय जब शांत रहेगा 

तो हमारी आत्मा के वास्तविक स्वरूप को हम देख सकते हैं 

Relationship

If you don't have a relationship with yourself. All other relationships become shallow.And if your relationship with yourself is so profound & steady then you can naturally develop the skill to handle any kind of relationship around you.